Then, when he has no purpose left for you, he just throws you away. You’re so much worse off than when you first started dating. Something that will give you the strength to pick up the pieces of your shattered psyche and lost soul.It’s as if you cannot remember the person you were before the relationship began. These are the feelings so many women go through on a daily basis.You think to yourself, Sometimes some of the most “obvious” red flags are completely ignored and the consequence is a broken heart.
Someone who truly wants to get to know you will take the time to write a personalized message responding to specific items in your profile, not send a generic cut-and-paste letter saying, “Hey girl, I saw your profile and was intrigued …” Think about the hundreds of other people who’ve gotten the same letter, and decide whether you’re willing to accept only the barest minimum of effort.Red Flag Rule #27: If your guy can't tolerate your quirks now, he's only going to resent them—and you—later.Red Flag Rule #41: If the guy you're dating tells you he can't commit to a relationship right now because he's "processing a lot," don't wait around for him to work through his sh*t.Red Flag Rule #5: If your "dates" with a guy consist solely of booze and booty calls, chances are he's not your boyfriend.Red Flag Rule #10: If a guy can't hear the word "vagina" without giggling, he should not be permitted to touch yours.