Yes, it’s a good idea to jot down the details of your first date so you don’t ask the same questions and repeat the same stories the second time around.No, it’s not a good idea to be able to recall his life story with a level of specificity and fixation generally reserved for best friends, close family members and stalkers.At the end of your first date, it’s a good idea to write down what you discussed and what you learned about each other.It sounds a little mechanical and silly, but it’s better to know for sure what’s been covered than to try and muddle through your faulty memory 30 minutes before round two. Be aloof, come with a script, or try to play it cool. We’re here to help you bag love at first (web)site. Use a friend, family member or coach to help proof your profile. You will most likely need to write a “no thank you” email at some point. That’s a sure-fire way to miss a possible real connection.They can provide valuable feedback for content and point out typos and grammar errors as well. Don’t shave numbers off your age, try to stuff that body into a different body type classification, or give yourself a big, fat raise. Seriously, do you really want to make someone call you on it face to face? So before you even start your dating process, write up a few kind, short rejection emails and store them in a Word document. I’m Wendy Newman, a media-celebrated author & trusted dating, sex & relationship advisor.
To help guide you through this tricky stage, keep the following do’s and don’ts in mind the next time you have a second date on the horizon.
Men who date them have also received the same treatment at times.
You might even be told that you are not a ‘real’ man because you are dating a ‘fake’ woman.
She stopped counting right about the time you started wanting to date older women.
PLAY GAMES As Jodi Miller, comic and proud cougar, says, “We can get that from guys our own age.